How to LOVE a Black Man: R.E.S.P.E.C.T. H.I.M. (Healing Black Love) Paperback – July 28, 2018

I absolutely loved this book. I have been on a healing journey since the pandemic began. I am in healthcare and saw many deaths during that time. I began to question the universe about life. Seeing so much death, I was concerned about how I was living my life. I asked the universe to reveal to me what I needed to do in order to live life to the fullest on Earth before my time was up. I began watching YouTube videos on femininity, black love, and propaganda to disrupt the black family unit. This book helped me to learn everything that I was not taught about men. I was raised in a single parent household and was told to "get the education, get the bag, and depend on no man". While that information wasn't incorrect, I was never taught HOW to relate to a man, let alone how to properly LOVE him. This book helped me to hone in on the ideas that tI naturally already had, but was shunned from exploring due to my mothers experiences with dating. Some of us were taught to be too tough as a result of our mothers experiences, that we were never safe to be feminine. Femininity was seen as weak. I now understand that femininity/nurturing is the one area that matters most in relating to men. Knowing how to love them, how to encourage them, how to let them lead while still encouraging them to enhance their won leadership skills. If you're like me, and youre on your own unlearning journey back to your default settings of femininity and community, please get this book. Not only are the tips good for healing black love, they're also great for learning how to encourage our man, friends, brothers, cousins, nephews, and fathers. I look forward to reading the other books in the series. Thank you Dr. Intimacy.

🔥🔥🔥This book is absolutely AMAZING! I’ve never read anything like it. I thought it was an old school oppressive type of book because of the whole “respect thing” lol, but it’s not that at all. This book is totally liberating and revealing. It reveals the pitfalls that cause Black Love to fail and how to avoid them. The book shows both men and women how to take ownership of the outcome of a relationship, how to design and cultivate the love you want to live out with your significant other. It’s about getting the results you want for the effort you put in. It teaches Black men how to evaluate their own worth, how to choose and effectively communicate his needs to a queen and how to carry themselves like Kings. It teaches Black women how to identify a worthy King and how to secure his heart and have him fall madly in love with you and ONLY you! There is no way anyone can read and apply the 100 key insights in this book with the right person and not get love they have longed for!!! I suggest reading it with a friend or two for discussion, accountability and understanding. 🖤🖤🖤

If you have an alpha man in your life: dating, father, brother, friend, whoever. This book gives the perfect direction and guidance on how treat and understand a strong black man To…The…T!Each chapter is outlined in acronyms and sections, and goes into detail on what to and what not to do. And it has helped me understand that my man isn’t complicated, he’s just being misunderstood.Love this book! 5 stars!!!

This book was nice an it’s something to keep reading over time

Book arrived in great condition, I haven't read it yet. It smells absolutely wonderful , has a sweet scent to it.

I love this book, I plan on re-reading in times if need

Very helpful book

First, let me say I strongly agree that men need praise and to be uplifted. However, where the author lost me is the belief that men should be praised even when you are hurt or disappointed by their actions. I agree with the struggles the African-American male has struggled with according to this book, they are very real struggles but no one deserves praise for a wrongful action.