Finding Love Through Female Domination
Product ID: 81995915
Dominatrix Renee Lane and her submissive husband live in Memphis, Tennessee, disguised as an average married couple. In private life, they are mistress and slave. For the last ten years, Ms. Renee has employed erotic S&M, mind control, and brainwashing techniques to forge an intimate and loving bond with her submissive partner. They consider themselves explorers of the boundaries of consensual female domination. Ms. Renee’s intense and radical approach to their relationship will challenge the reader who merely dabbles in BDSM. Review: Impressions on the first two chapters - i am reading very slowly. i am doing this with l pointed intent however. Having been very early on cautioned about the likelihood of my being a poor fit for the level of darkness for which Ms Renee openly considers herself a matching shade, i, as one who reognizes his submissivenes and yet fears it because of mistrust for ANY potential partner, am guarded in my approach to this tantalizing, titillating and quite terrifying twisted tale of tactically, but open not tacitly, turning two to ONE together truly and totally. That firmly in mind please allow me to divulge just what a menacing and moderately malevolent maddeningly marvelous and oh-so measuredly male mind-fuck i have already begun to experience. i love that this woman is empowered and exceedingly brilliant. Calling her a thinker does not begin to do her justice nor would half a dozen much more meaningful adjectives that would engender the same notient for this purpose, so why try? Her exchanges with her much more dark compatriot "Heather" paint the picture quite nicely of the inception of her, or more accurately their, path to self discovery re domination. Here begins one of my first, and i won't bore you with them all, uneasy feelings. She through the form of an actively ongoing conversation reveals their mutual low opinion of men. She openly identifies herself as a female supremacist. She doesn't sugar coat it with words like "for the most part" "in general" or "stereotypically " as a closet bigot would. No she owns it! How am i supposed to feel here as a man? Am i outraged? Am i left with a bad taste? Am i angered at all?! All and none of the above! Initially i feel each of these, but upon very simple reflection realize that i too am a female supremacist! i am TRULY outraged at society's injustice towards women, or in a much more broad and yet exceedingly more accurate sense i am outraged with male dominated society in its entirety. This post is already going to be far too long for me to start a list here. So as with the aspects of any bigotted argument with which i am in accord i swallow hard accept it about myself and move on, regardless of how it puts pressure on the sensitive nerves surrounding my self protection with regard to loss of my gender identity and in spite of the extent to which i feel myself a traitor to my gender, the latter is truly of very little importance in stark comparison to the former. Next She moves on to a much more sensitive area for me than the previous. She alludes to "Heather" of the upcoming demonstration of Butler's commitment to form. Already allowing us to glimpse at her friend's visciousness, you are left wondering to just what the hell she could subject this man that might even get the attention of such a Demonatrix as her guest. So as not to spoil anything i will omit the actual spectacle and jump to the reactions it elicited. Already mortified by having had to do the action with the potential for a grand level ostricization in their shared neighborhood community, he is immediately greeted by "Heather" bellowing out not satisfaction in her friend's having found someone willing, but rather a dismissive shrugging off of the demonstration with a smart quip but relishing in the foolishness of the man for having done the act at all! This is from a Domme who should actually appreciate it, but not at all out of character as all would suggest. Ms Renee dutifully and faithfully acknowledges her servants self sacrifice, but does not admonish her friend in the slightest. Why would she? It was almost entirely for her benefit! Or...so it would appear. To add insult to her insult to his injury, and with the full approval of Ms Renee, "Heather" issues a command of her own to bookend the encounter with regard to Butler's attendance. So here i am met with confrontation of a second of my most bothersome of problems with complete submission. i do not agree with humiliation or degradation. i agree entirely with the willingness to endure it for the benefit of your partner, but doing so for the purpose of impressing a third party is far too trivial to subject a loved to such cruelties, in my humble and inexperienced opinion. Then allowing the third party to participate further deepening the wounds...unthinkable! u...n..THINK..able? Think? That is what i need to do. It is quite clear by observation that many Many MANY submissives thrive off degradation and humiliation. Furthermore, even if he did not love it we are further treated to one of the most masterfully artistic complementary aspects of the ongoing conversation and narrative styles that Ms Renee has skillfully woven into the pages herein, and that is the journal of mr Butler. Whist i read what he did feel during each of these moments i realize that his level of commitment is far deeper than i had even had allowed for. i am a supremely commited, passionate and loyal person. i NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER allow for the most miniscule of chances that someone could possibly be my equal in this regard and then i feel i am finally introduced to a peer. This turns me upside down, flips the script, twists me up and turns me out, confounds, befuddles and eludes my comprehension for a period of time during which i am struggling to understand, what would engender this type of commitment to someone who would make a spectacle of you for purposes of mere entertainment of company, if he is not actually enjoying the degradation himself? Once i stop contemplating the characters and i turn inward and ask myself what would bring this out in me? i have the answer but i am not willing to acknowledge it yet, so i suffice in knowing that he is more than just a willing participant, that he is enjoying it, but on a level that i cannot understand and yet do, and of course he delights in the pleasure of his partner. This is something with which i identify ad infinitum. i would live and breathe for my ideal ONE. i did when i thought i had found her, and have longed for that feeling again without rest. As we read we see that, while both female supremacists, one appears more and more to be a bona fide man hater who would revel in nothing more than revenge on the male species for the yea..decad...centur...milleni...Frack it! all of existence's oppression, suppression for millinia in succession that has resulted in regression. (Who can blame her, right?) And we are met with one of them revealing herself to be a supremacist whose revelling would abide in revealing the one or two of us wanting, willing, waiting, AND worthy of womankind in all of her unbridled glory. What is more we find that she is further very much conscious, and conscientious of the responsibility she is assuming control of as she moves into her next stages. And so some more of the apprehension i naturally shoulder is assuaged as i begin again to become convinced of her trustworthiness, and i harken to early on in the book where she admonishes readers not to pursue this level of commital to role if one has misgivings about trust and moreover could not readily picture a strong relationship with their partner bereft of D/s dynamics. i begin to trust her a little more. i do so just long enough it would seem for her to start alluding to her darker intentions, and diabolical designs, and her taking immense pleasure in the opiate of the submissive! On guard once again! Then she discusses her appreciation of his appreciation which is deep enough to inspire such metaphysical supernatural psychological feelings and further she refers to "her man" endearingly, without design whatsoever and again i am ill, but at ease. ARRGGH! Poor poor lucky motherfrackin Butler! Finally i am drawing near to a conclusion. This time we once again visit one of my core resistances to sweet surrender so spectacularly special to submissively subsist and be solely sustained such that she sees sufficient splendor sanctifying self without paying heed to it. This time it is my penultimate worry. While loss of gender identity is high on the list, and not being subject to degradation and humiliation is way up there as well, the loss of self identity is paramount. i like me. Without getting to specific She signals to Butler to agree with her completely using directives given him previously. Whilst in company of others, and for a benefit for a cause she is championing and he is making splendiferous, by suggestions of context unembellished by any self agrandizing, read from his journal, she begins into a spiel that completely countermands his own opinion on a subject about which he is exceptionally passionate. He frustrates, sweats, swallows hard and dutifully if half-assedly confirms his agreement. It messed with him....enough, let us just say that. He acknowledges the fact that she is teasing him based on their dynamic in private life, but he feels cheated of his right to opinion. Once again all of the misgivings about her come flooding back. i am remembering her references to deep mind control, but in doing so i remember that she is acceptant of the result entirely. Then i think well that is at least what she says, and that is when it clicks. That is when it all makes sense and i see the reason i see a peer in commitment and loyalty. That is when i realize that i can read this all the way to the end and enjoy this hellride because at the end of its wonderfully worded whimsically welded work of well worth reading entertainment i am in the safe spot of the reader and i also can assume that they are always going to be happy this way. The only way this man could have met my level of respect for loving his partner, if not loving everything to which she subjects him, is the thing she puts at the forefront of the book. Trust! He trusts her completely to not take it too far for him, he trusts her enough to know that this degradation or humiliation whilst seemingly for the mere entertainment of a guest could be for so much more. So he underwent some temporary discomfort so that she could get a fulfillment of her needs such that Mazlow never included in his hierarchy. Would i endure that for my love? in a nanosecond, in a flea's heartbeat (do they have circulatory systems?) i would! My trouble is i am burdened by the why. Why is this? Because i do not trust! That is what he has...THEY have! And that is the key! Now God help me i have to hold onto that because this is bound to get much dicier! Review: A must have for any fan of female domination reading!!!! - This book is about the lives of a lifestyle Dominatrix, Miss Renee, and the slave she completely enslaves and consumes . We follow the true story of their life through correspondences from various players. These include letters and emails from Mistress Renee, her slave Butler, and Mistress Renee's dearest friend Heather, among others. This is unlike any book you've ever read on the lifestyle!! First of all Mistress Renee and her slave, are great writers in their own right, and they paint a vivid and descriptive world of their delicious decadence. You fall in love with this woman immediately, if that is your slant. I am deviant, so I immediately buckled. Then there is her slave Butler, supremely confident thought fatally flawed? Perhaps he isn't. *chuckles to self * I, like him, am hopelessly submissive /masochistic also. So I can certainly empathize with this star crossed fellow. They are the yin and the yang and fit each other like a glove, as it were. I marvel and shudder at this Supreme lady's inventiveness and cruelty! I watch with awe as she dismantles this man through mind control techniques, brain washing, black mail, domination, and humiliation. She handles Butler as an adept surgeon handles a scalpel ; with precise expertise. It doesn't come easily for her at first. She has reservations and it reluctant, but soon, with the intervention and assistance from her equally deviant girl friends, it comes to fruition. The enslavement and domination of Butler is complete! Are her ways scrupulous ? Most certainly they aren't , and often you may question Miss Renee's mindset. No matter..... that's what makes this Lady so remarkable to me, is the ruthless efficiency in which she accomplishes this. This is a must read handbook for all Dominas and slaves alike. It's an unapologetic look at a Female led relationship, and that's quite the understatemt. This book has the subtlety of a sledgehammer striking a small nail!! Also you may follow Miss Renee and her submissive army of minions on FB through the group "Finding Love Through Female Domination" Thank you I hope to see you there, and remember.. BUY THIS THIS DAMN BOOK!!!! IT'S FLAT OUT FREAKING AMAZING!!!!
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A**.
Impressions on the first two chapters
i am reading very slowly. i am doing this with l pointed intent however. Having been very early on cautioned about the likelihood of my being a poor fit for the level of darkness for which Ms Renee openly considers herself a matching shade, i, as one who reognizes his submissivenes and yet fears it because of mistrust for ANY potential partner, am guarded in my approach to this tantalizing, titillating and quite terrifying twisted tale of tactically, but open not tacitly, turning two to ONE together truly and totally. That firmly in mind please allow me to divulge just what a menacing and moderately malevolent maddeningly marvelous and oh-so measuredly male mind-fuck i have already begun to experience. i love that this woman is empowered and exceedingly brilliant. Calling her a thinker does not begin to do her justice nor would half a dozen much more meaningful adjectives that would engender the same notient for this purpose, so why try? Her exchanges with her much more dark compatriot "Heather" paint the picture quite nicely of the inception of her, or more accurately their, path to self discovery re domination. Here begins one of my first, and i won't bore you with them all, uneasy feelings. She through the form of an actively ongoing conversation reveals their mutual low opinion of men. She openly identifies herself as a female supremacist. She doesn't sugar coat it with words like "for the most part" "in general" or "stereotypically " as a closet bigot would. No she owns it! How am i supposed to feel here as a man? Am i outraged? Am i left with a bad taste? Am i angered at all?! All and none of the above! Initially i feel each of these, but upon very simple reflection realize that i too am a female supremacist! i am TRULY outraged at society's injustice towards women, or in a much more broad and yet exceedingly more accurate sense i am outraged with male dominated society in its entirety. This post is already going to be far too long for me to start a list here. So as with the aspects of any bigotted argument with which i am in accord i swallow hard accept it about myself and move on, regardless of how it puts pressure on the sensitive nerves surrounding my self protection with regard to loss of my gender identity and in spite of the extent to which i feel myself a traitor to my gender, the latter is truly of very little importance in stark comparison to the former. Next She moves on to a much more sensitive area for me than the previous. She alludes to "Heather" of the upcoming demonstration of Butler's commitment to form. Already allowing us to glimpse at her friend's visciousness, you are left wondering to just what the hell she could subject this man that might even get the attention of such a Demonatrix as her guest. So as not to spoil anything i will omit the actual spectacle and jump to the reactions it elicited. Already mortified by having had to do the action with the potential for a grand level ostricization in their shared neighborhood community, he is immediately greeted by "Heather" bellowing out not satisfaction in her friend's having found someone willing, but rather a dismissive shrugging off of the demonstration with a smart quip but relishing in the foolishness of the man for having done the act at all! This is from a Domme who should actually appreciate it, but not at all out of character as all would suggest. Ms Renee dutifully and faithfully acknowledges her servants self sacrifice, but does not admonish her friend in the slightest. Why would she? It was almost entirely for her benefit! Or...so it would appear. To add insult to her insult to his injury, and with the full approval of Ms Renee, "Heather" issues a command of her own to bookend the encounter with regard to Butler's attendance. So here i am met with confrontation of a second of my most bothersome of problems with complete submission. i do not agree with humiliation or degradation. i agree entirely with the willingness to endure it for the benefit of your partner, but doing so for the purpose of impressing a third party is far too trivial to subject a loved to such cruelties, in my humble and inexperienced opinion. Then allowing the third party to participate further deepening the wounds...unthinkable! u...n..THINK..able? Think? That is what i need to do. It is quite clear by observation that many Many MANY submissives thrive off degradation and humiliation. Furthermore, even if he did not love it we are further treated to one of the most masterfully artistic complementary aspects of the ongoing conversation and narrative styles that Ms Renee has skillfully woven into the pages herein, and that is the journal of mr Butler. Whist i read what he did feel during each of these moments i realize that his level of commitment is far deeper than i had even had allowed for. i am a supremely commited, passionate and loyal person. i NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER allow for the most miniscule of chances that someone could possibly be my equal in this regard and then i feel i am finally introduced to a peer. This turns me upside down, flips the script, twists me up and turns me out, confounds, befuddles and eludes my comprehension for a period of time during which i am struggling to understand, what would engender this type of commitment to someone who would make a spectacle of you for purposes of mere entertainment of company, if he is not actually enjoying the degradation himself? Once i stop contemplating the characters and i turn inward and ask myself what would bring this out in me? i have the answer but i am not willing to acknowledge it yet, so i suffice in knowing that he is more than just a willing participant, that he is enjoying it, but on a level that i cannot understand and yet do, and of course he delights in the pleasure of his partner. This is something with which i identify ad infinitum. i would live and breathe for my ideal ONE. i did when i thought i had found her, and have longed for that feeling again without rest. As we read we see that, while both female supremacists, one appears more and more to be a bona fide man hater who would revel in nothing more than revenge on the male species for the yea..decad...centur...milleni...Frack it! all of existence's oppression, suppression for millinia in succession that has resulted in regression. (Who can blame her, right?) And we are met with one of them revealing herself to be a supremacist whose revelling would abide in revealing the one or two of us wanting, willing, waiting, AND worthy of womankind in all of her unbridled glory. What is more we find that she is further very much conscious, and conscientious of the responsibility she is assuming control of as she moves into her next stages. And so some more of the apprehension i naturally shoulder is assuaged as i begin again to become convinced of her trustworthiness, and i harken to early on in the book where she admonishes readers not to pursue this level of commital to role if one has misgivings about trust and moreover could not readily picture a strong relationship with their partner bereft of D/s dynamics. i begin to trust her a little more. i do so just long enough it would seem for her to start alluding to her darker intentions, and diabolical designs, and her taking immense pleasure in the opiate of the submissive! On guard once again! Then she discusses her appreciation of his appreciation which is deep enough to inspire such metaphysical supernatural psychological feelings and further she refers to "her man" endearingly, without design whatsoever and again i am ill, but at ease. ARRGGH! Poor poor lucky motherfrackin Butler! Finally i am drawing near to a conclusion. This time we once again visit one of my core resistances to sweet surrender so spectacularly special to submissively subsist and be solely sustained such that she sees sufficient splendor sanctifying self without paying heed to it. This time it is my penultimate worry. While loss of gender identity is high on the list, and not being subject to degradation and humiliation is way up there as well, the loss of self identity is paramount. i like me. Without getting to specific She signals to Butler to agree with her completely using directives given him previously. Whilst in company of others, and for a benefit for a cause she is championing and he is making splendiferous, by suggestions of context unembellished by any self agrandizing, read from his journal, she begins into a spiel that completely countermands his own opinion on a subject about which he is exceptionally passionate. He frustrates, sweats, swallows hard and dutifully if half-assedly confirms his agreement. It messed with him....enough, let us just say that. He acknowledges the fact that she is teasing him based on their dynamic in private life, but he feels cheated of his right to opinion. Once again all of the misgivings about her come flooding back. i am remembering her references to deep mind control, but in doing so i remember that she is acceptant of the result entirely. Then i think well that is at least what she says, and that is when it clicks. That is when it all makes sense and i see the reason i see a peer in commitment and loyalty. That is when i realize that i can read this all the way to the end and enjoy this hellride because at the end of its wonderfully worded whimsically welded work of well worth reading entertainment i am in the safe spot of the reader and i also can assume that they are always going to be happy this way. The only way this man could have met my level of respect for loving his partner, if not loving everything to which she subjects him, is the thing she puts at the forefront of the book. Trust! He trusts her completely to not take it too far for him, he trusts her enough to know that this degradation or humiliation whilst seemingly for the mere entertainment of a guest could be for so much more. So he underwent some temporary discomfort so that she could get a fulfillment of her needs such that Mazlow never included in his hierarchy. Would i endure that for my love? in a nanosecond, in a flea's heartbeat (do they have circulatory systems?) i would! My trouble is i am burdened by the why. Why is this? Because i do not trust! That is what he has...THEY have! And that is the key! Now God help me i have to hold onto that because this is bound to get much dicier!
P**R
A must have for any fan of female domination reading!!!!
This book is about the lives of a lifestyle Dominatrix, Miss Renee, and the slave she completely enslaves and consumes . We follow the true story of their life through correspondences from various players. These include letters and emails from Mistress Renee, her slave Butler, and Mistress Renee's dearest friend Heather, among others. This is unlike any book you've ever read on the lifestyle!! First of all Mistress Renee and her slave, are great writers in their own right, and they paint a vivid and descriptive world of their delicious decadence. You fall in love with this woman immediately, if that is your slant. I am deviant, so I immediately buckled. Then there is her slave Butler, supremely confident thought fatally flawed? Perhaps he isn't. *chuckles to self * I, like him, am hopelessly submissive /masochistic also. So I can certainly empathize with this star crossed fellow. They are the yin and the yang and fit each other like a glove, as it were. I marvel and shudder at this Supreme lady's inventiveness and cruelty! I watch with awe as she dismantles this man through mind control techniques, brain washing, black mail, domination, and humiliation. She handles Butler as an adept surgeon handles a scalpel ; with precise expertise. It doesn't come easily for her at first. She has reservations and it reluctant, but soon, with the intervention and assistance from her equally deviant girl friends, it comes to fruition. The enslavement and domination of Butler is complete! Are her ways scrupulous ? Most certainly they aren't , and often you may question Miss Renee's mindset. No matter..... that's what makes this Lady so remarkable to me, is the ruthless efficiency in which she accomplishes this. This is a must read handbook for all Dominas and slaves alike. It's an unapologetic look at a Female led relationship, and that's quite the understatemt. This book has the subtlety of a sledgehammer striking a small nail!! Also you may follow Miss Renee and her submissive army of minions on FB through the group "Finding Love Through Female Domination" Thank you I hope to see you there, and remember.. BUY THIS THIS DAMN BOOK!!!! IT'S FLAT OUT FREAKING AMAZING!!!!
G**B
Like driving at night with the lights off
Brilliant, crazy, intense, and a must have for anyone who is genuinely kinky. It's like reading "Venus in Furs" but as told from Wanda's perspective. Renee Lane does not write with quite the introspective elegance of Sacher-Masoch, but she writes well enough, and she definitely gets her point across. If Masoch is a crop, Ms. Lane is a cane. The scenes with her and Butler are the high points, and that rabbit hole just gets deeper and longer. Ms. Lane is a renegade, an outlaw, and this book isn't for the rule-book waving scolds who endless chant their "Safe-Sane-Consensual" mantra; but it deserves to be read. Ms.Lane is earnest in her pursuit of her goal--and Butler always has a choice--even is we all know what he's going to choose. It's consensual, broadly. And mostly safe. I say sane, but that's up for grabs. She is all over the boundary lines, and that's what makes it a fine and fun read. Careful what you wish for, boys, you might just get it. I tumbler of whiskey to you and your slave. Ms. Lane, you have told a dark and little understood truth about who we are.
J**N
The perfect Romance story
What an incredible true story of a couple who found each other, and knew what they wanted in their relationship. While others frequently dance on the edges of love and what it means to truly gives ones self to the other, this couple was committed and dedicated to what they each desired. Ms Renee and true lifestyle Dominant Female shared their story with compelling detail, everything including the mistakes they made along the way. She took him - changed his name to Butler because that is what he was now. Took his money because he agreed to that. And remade him into the submissive male that floated her boat. A wonderful story of romance, of love and what true surrender looks like. He is nothing! She is his everything! She will use him, and abuse him. He will and does not just ask for more, but thank her for making him perfect. It's not porn, it's love. Thank you for sharing your story and giving us a glimpse of such a powerful and beautiful love.
K**Y
These reviews are accurate, disturbing but captivating
Definitely proceed with caution, not for the faint of heart. This book is tough to get through. I am on the last chapter and I still do not feel that this is a love story, it feels like grooming, it feels cold, calculating and self serving with the justification of “consent” . Definitely makes you question the morality and boundaries of what constitutes consensual BDSM. Cruel, captivating And Well written. I love the format of telling a story through letters and the diary. Had a hard time getting through it honestly and am kind of scared to finish the last few pages because I doubt it suddenly turns loving.
B**H
What an amazing journey!
What an amazing journey. The author, Ms. Renee Lane, is a Female Supremacist. Luckily she discovers a man, who agrees with her. From the beginning, neither would be satisfied with a bit of dressing up and erotic spankings. If he wanted to submit to her, then she required it in every aspect of their life. He agreed and encouraged her to take advantage of him using every technique, she could think of. He even supplied her with blackmail material in case, he tried to change his mind. Now, that's love through Female Domination ! Reading the book left me flabbergasted ! I felt a pull at my very core and unexpectedly dropped into something that is very intense and real. For those of you with the same interest in dominant/submissive relationship, you've arrived at the right place. My best recommendation.
C**4
Intense and authentic
If you like Femdom, she is the real deal! This (by all my research) absolutely true story about an extreme but loving relationship with her super sub Butler is hard to put down. Unlike most domme stories for sub guys, this is not for a titillating tale for us but for her. With something to not like for everyone (I would have preferred her feminizing him, but that’s not her thing), this is her no holds barred Gyno supremacy story that goes much farther than most stories. And it’s true. Athough it’s more extreme than I am (and I would venture, more extreme than anyone is), it’s hard to stop reading. It’s still hot and you have to give it to her. She doesn’t take any crap from anyone. She and fellow female power thinker Viola Voltairine are turning this story into a movie slowly. I wish them luck. Keep keeping it real!
A**W
Disgusting
Psychiatric illness, Pathetic
S**A
La vraie vie de Butler
It's quite rare to get a real story rather than a novel in the world of FLR. Most of the time it's just about some fantasies and have no big interest. Renee's book is all but fantasy and she explains through a personal diary and few mails step by step how she progress during those 10 years. Is it a manual ? Not at all, Renee and Butler had their own way and they are the first to say that's not for everyone. Many times Renee ask us "did I go too far ?" Her story lack the feeling of love. This is a pity that she didn't add those words of love. When you know her better through her facebook group, you realize that it would never been possible without love. Is it a question of restraint ? This is very paradoxical to go so far by love. Renee said that in FLR you must move forward and keep some dynamic or it fails. May be this explains that ... Did you go too far Renee ... I think you were two if not three to go there (I guess Butler is secretly in love of Heather). From the day he asked you to get real constraints against him, he knew he will go somewhere he could eventually not want. From there he gradually lost the control and surrender to you. In her book, I don't see Renee as a dominatrix but just a woman who dominate her "husband" with the help of other women and help them to achieve the same thing. Very good book so different of what we usually find in that literature
S**S
The best book I have read so far
This book beautifully captures all the amazing moments Ms Lane had with her sub, who I believe is the luckiest as well as strong. I can't thank Ms Lane more for writing the book and with all the editing work. You will keep inspiring many of us to move forward on this road. Appreciate you for putting your time Ms Lane.
S**L
An Amazing Guide to REAL Female Domination
I just read Finding Love Through Female Dominaition by Renee Lane. You can read it on Amazon Books for three bucks. Well worth it. It was brilliant, crazy, intense, and a must have for anyone who is genuinely kinky. It's like reading "Venus in Furs" but as told from Wanda's perspective. Renee Lane does not write with quite the introspective elegance of Sacher-Masoch, but she writes well enough, and she definitely gets her point across. If Masoch is a crop, Ms. Lane is a cane. The scenes with her and Butler are the high points, and that rabbit hole just gets deeper and longer. Ms. Lane is a renegade, an outlaw, and this book isn't for the rule-book waving scolds who endlessly chant their "Safe-Sane-Consensual" mantra; but it deserves to be read. Ms.Lane is earnest in her pursuit of her goal--and Butler always has a choice--even is we all know what he's going to choose. It's consensual, broadly. And mostly safe. I say sane, but that's up for grabs. She is all over the boundary lines, and that's what makes it a fine and fun read. Careful what you wish for, boys, you might just get it. I tumbler of whiskey to you and your slave. Ms. Lane, you have told a dark and little understood truth about who we are
A**R
Great story for those interested in FLR
Whether fiction or reality, this is a very well written story of a female led relationship, where both want nothing less than the total submission of the male and thereby finding real love. If this is a real story, then I am heavily impressed. When reading this book I had similar feelings as he had, and wanted to be in his place.
K**R
Be prepared to have your brain rewired
Well. Here is a book—perhaps one of only two or three in the bdsm genre—that has managed to touch me as deeply as Story of O with its tale (a real life tale this time) of total subjugation and service. Renee Lane’s Finding Love Through Female Domination, a recounting of her journey with her submissive partner, Butler, is, quite simply, mind altering. The methods will not be to everyone’s taste. But the depth, the intensity and the devotion of both dominant and submissive as expressed through the three powerful voices narrating cannot help but leave a lasting impression. It is a story of suffering and love. It is a hammering of rings into the vertical rock wall of a different sort of relationship, one with no less profound risks and rewards at stake for those adventurers who dare to explore it. Prepare to be inspired. Prepare to be shocked. Be prepared to have your brain rewired. This is a book that punches back at kink-shame, at toxic masculinity, and at the notion that any woman need ever accept less than impeccability in her intimate relationships. It is not a book for the timid. Compelling and transformational, Finding Love Through Female Domination is an easy read and pleasingly well-written. But it's not always easy to accept—as has always been the way when it comes to genuine, intense, and truly loving bdsm. One must be ready to think new things. And one must never rest. Because this is what a real whip feels like. This is what real obedience means. And this is what love is.
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