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# Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life

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Boundaries is the book that's helped over 4 million people learn when to say yes and know how to say no in order to take control of their lives. Does your life feel like it's out of control? Perhaps you feel like you have to say yes to everyone's requests. Maybe you find yourself readily taking responsibility for others' feelings and problems. Or perhaps you focus so much on being loving and unselfish that you've forgotten your own limits and limitations. Or maybe it's all of the above. In the New York Times bestseller, Boundaries, Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend help you learn when to say yes and know how to say no in order to take control of your life and set healthy, biblical boundaries with your spouse, children, friends, parents, co-workers, and even yourself. Now updated and expanded for the digital age, this book continues to help millions of people around the world answer these tough questions: Can I set limits and still be a loving person? What are legitimate boundaries? How do I effectively manage my digital life so that it doesn't control me? What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries? How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money? Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries? How do boundaries relate to mutual submission within marriage? Aren’t boundaries selfish? You don’t have to let your life spiral out of control. Discover how boundaries make life better today! Plus, check out Boundaries family collection of books dedicated to key areas of life - dating, marriage, raising kids, parenting teens, and leadership. Workbooks and Spanish editions are also available.

Review: Worth reading more than once - A very insightful book with practical advice. I’ve gone back to it multiple times and always find something new. Really helpful and meaningful.
Review: Great and Informative Read!!! - This book is a comprehensive look at boundaries, what they are, and the need to set them in different areas of your life. It has a spiritual thread through it as well, which does not proselytize. It is also not overly clinical in the discussions of boundaries and it would be a great read that could resonate with anyone. It is a book I use in my life and with my therapy clients. Check it out for yourself! You might be surprised to see how much you resonate with the scenarios and how much you uncover about yourself in the process of learning.

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
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| Best Sellers Rank | #542 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #1 in Codependency (Books) #3 in Christian Self Help #6 in Christian Personal Growth |
| Customer Reviews | 4.7 out of 5 stars 25,376 Reviews |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Worth reading more than once
*by A***W on April 26, 2026*

A very insightful book with practical advice. I’ve gone back to it multiple times and always find something new. Really helpful and meaningful.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Great and Informative Read!!!
*by P***. on February 25, 2026*

This book is a comprehensive look at boundaries, what they are, and the need to set them in different areas of your life. It has a spiritual thread through it as well, which does not proselytize. It is also not overly clinical in the discussions of boundaries and it would be a great read that could resonate with anyone. It is a book I use in my life and with my therapy clients. Check it out for yourself! You might be surprised to see how much you resonate with the scenarios and how much you uncover about yourself in the process of learning.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ EVERYONE MUST READ THIS BOOK
*by K***Y on February 28, 2013*

DR HENRY CLOUD has been a guest speaker at my church on more than one occasion over the years. He’s an amazing speaker, and seems like a genuinely nice guy. When I heard about BOUNDARIES: WHEN TO SAY YES, WHEN TO SAY NO – TO TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE by DR HENRY CLOUD AND JOHN TOWNSEND, I decided to purchase it. I’m sorry to say I let it sit on my bookshelf for some time before finally reading it. Once I got started, I quickly realized what a treasure I’d stumbled upon. There’s so much good stuff packed into 304 pages, I can’t begin to cover it all. I will say that I have more dog-eared paged in BOUNDARIES, then I do in any other book I’ve ever owned. I didn’t realize I had boundaries issues until I read this book. There wasn’t a chapter I didn’t get something out of it or couldn’t connect with. I had thought about skipping the section on “Boundaries and Work”, since I’m no longer in the work field. I would have missed out if I had. It was a real eye opener to when I had worked, and packed with wonderful information if I ever decided to return to working. Boundaries are needed in all parts of our lives including, our family, friends, spouses, kids, and those we work with. We as individuals need to set our own boundaries as well. To not do so would only be cheating oneself. We also need to recognize that God has boundaries as well. BOUNDARIES will teach you all you need to know about boundaries in all aspects of your life, and how to apply them properly. I love the reference to Christianity, but even if you’re not a believer, I highly recommend this book. My copy of BOUNDARIES is filled with highlights, parentheses, and astericks. If I had to pinpoint the most valuable piece of information I took away, it would have to be in a paragraph on page 89. “What you can do is influence others. But there is a trick. Since you cannot get them to change, you must change yourself so that their destructive patterns no longer work on you. Change your way of dealing with them; they may be motivated to change if their old ways no longer work.” What amazing advice. How often do we gripe and groan about others? How often do we try to change others, whether in the way they act or what they say? And more importantly … how often do our efforts have a positive result? On page 89, BOUNDARIES teaches us that we are the ones that need to make a change, and by doing so, we may be instrumental in changing other’s life. I can’t even begin to guess how many people I’ve recommended this wonderful book too, packed full of knowledge for every person, written in a way that anyone can grasp. It’s a book that will remain in my home indefinitely.

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