Jessica Kingsley Publishers What's Happening to Tom?: A book about puberty for boys and young men with autism and related conditions

It was ok as a very quick overview for my 10 year old, but there really isn’t very much information and there are quite a few areas it doesn’t cover.

Loved the simple text and explanation

I bought this for my autistic 9yr old. This was the only option that I could find but I wish there was one for POC kids also. It honestly depends on your child's level of understanding for it to be effective. The pictures help alot if your child is more of a visual learner. I wish it was a little more basic especially for kids who have issues with reading comprehension. Im dealing with precocious puberty so for a 9 year old and it seems a little too advanced for her understanding. Her body is moving faster than her brain if that makes sense. I'm going to hold on to it and wait until she is a little older.

This book has been perfect for our non verbal autistic son. He tends to relate better to illustrations like this. They were graphic enough to both amuse and interest him. He doesn't want to read it with us. He rolls his eyes. But I find the book all over the house and see it's being looked at often. That was the important part for me. Him absorbing the information. I think it has helped us easily deal with the extra grooming transition without drama. I anticipated drama because it took years to tackle haircuts and bathing.He has also been very okay when it comes to wet sheets or changing damp underwear himself. I think him quietly changing and putting them in the washer is because of this book because I certainly didn't tell him.Everyone one the spectrum is different. This is a good fit for our son. I wish I had found it earlier.Thanks to the author and seller for carrying it.

Puberty is one of the most daunting experiences I have on my horizon in raising my son. I am sure it would be hard enough with a near typical child, but with my son on the spectrum I am even more puzzled. I am so thankful to have this book as a guide, and a beginning step in preparing myself for what is to come. The book may take you aback at first as it is direct and graphic, but I think that is probably what will be necessary in communicating with my son on the topic. While I am used to rigidity and being very black and white with most topics with him, there is something that almost feels wrong about doing it on this topic- but if not it will son make sense to him. I am thankful for this guide and the example it sets. I recommend ordering a few years before puberty so you can be prepared rather than playing catch up.